Sometimes, love and attachment gets twisted into one another. Sometimes, the lines get so blurred, that you become blind to what is happening around you. And you can’t tell what is real anymore. But, the difference between unhealthy attachment, and true love is in fact clear as day. Attachment is needing. It’s toxic. It’s only being …
Month: May 2018
Hi, my name is Sabrina and I’m a recovering Damage Case addict. What’s that you ask? OK let’s back up. I’m going to share a story, my favorite way to illustrate a point. After a string of mediocre dates that made me want to give up dating forever, a friend set me up with a …
Don’t be so naïve so as to think that the only way to get a man to be addicted to you is to give him constant pleasures every night in back. A man is much more than just a sexual animal; there is more than meets the eye. You have to remember that a man …
Guys like him aren’t going to change. He was toxic before you met him and he’s not going to change his ways because he ‘loves you’. Love to him isn’t the same as love to you – his love is conditional while yours is unconditional. You are blinded by him, you are completely infatuated with …
When you think about making a guy fall for you so hard that he can’t live without you, you might think that it all comes down to sex — isn’t the Big O the way to his heart? Well, not really. The truth is, there are plenty of other ways to keep him coming back …
Bad boys wreak havoc on our lives, our bodies and our brains. The reasons we love bad boys, toxic people and emotionally unavailable partners are not just emotional and psychological – they are downright biochemical. The truth of the matter is, our brains can be rewired to fixate on people who aren’t good for us. …
f you want your boyfriend to be addicted to you, you’ve come to the right place. At this point, you’ve probably realized it takes more than just a beautiful face to make your guy fall in love with you. If you’re missing the key elements that make any man fall in love, you’re bound to …
There are nights I wonder if you will ever have the courage to choose me. If there will be a day that I will have you all by myself, a time you can love me wholeheartedly, no excuses, no reasons. Just you and me unapologetically in love. I wonder if you will entirely erase her, …
The newest trend in the world of dating is, “let’s end things before they even start.” Before a fling can evolve into something that’s real we resist each other until the connection eventually fades away on it’s own. We’ve convinced ourselves that timing is everything. Everything happens for a reason and you must trust the timing of …
Falling in love with someone who is confused or unsure is probably one of the most damaging things you can involuntarily do. It’s setting yourself up for heartbreak and a future of always feeling not quite good enough; it’s admitting your feelings to someone and being given both hope and rejection in the same breath. …