Welcome to the world of dating a Pisces man. James Bond, well the actor Daniel Craig who plays him, is a famous Pisces proving that these are the smoothest talkers on the planet with the ability to woo almost anyone. Justin Bieber is also a well-known Pisces with that winning charisma which can see women fall at his feet.
To qualify as a Pisces means being born between February 18 – March 20, they are the water sign symbolized by a fish. Their feelings truly are like an ocean – bottomless, limitless and plentiful. They can be quite secretive with their personal life but once you’re in and close to them it will feel like the most fulfilling relationship you have ever had.
But first you will need sympathy, kindness and a lot of patience because there are a few things about the Pisces man you have to know.
14. He Will Struggle To Make You His Priority
The Pisces man is considered an ‘old soul’ and his friends believe he is the best listener of the group. This quite often means that they are always quick to help others with their problems and have a hard time saying no when it comes to being there for those in need.
You will settle down for a quiet evening in front of the TV with your Pisces man – then the next thing you know he’s getting in the car to speed off and help a friend who’s stranded somewhere. They are self-sacrificing yet this can quite often lead to your own frustrations because you will never feel like his priority.
13. He Will Suffer From Mood Swings
He will always be that shoulder to cry on for others and due to his highly-sensitive nature he will begin to absorb the emotions of others. His own compassion is his worst enemy and when a friend is depressed or in a bad mood – so is he.
This can also cause arguments between the two of you to go on for longer as he will mimic your emotions. For example: you become frustrated with him for being late, instead of just apologising and trying to make you happy again, he instead becomes frustrated too thus escalating the problem. Remember if you want a Pisces man to smile – then smile right at them and they will follow suit.
12. He Needs A Lot Of Alone Time
Due to their emotionally demanding friendships, Pisces men really do appreciate a lot of alone time where they can just relax and enjoy their own company. He most likely will have his own man cave already set up for when he needs to hide away from the world. This can hurt your own feelings when you begin to notice how happy he is spending countless hours away from you.
It is vital for your relationship to allow a Pisces man to have his alone time as he finds this essential for his own well-being. It is by no means a rejection to your company, plus the great benefits are he will be all the more romantic and giving once he has emerged fully-charged.
11. His Constant Flirting Is Unintentional But Frustrating
Pisces men are the most charming people you will ever come across – the downside is everyone else will notice this too. They are so full of charisma and have the ability to make almost anyone feel special. In conversation they always give their undivided attention, can make an instant connection and appear very understanding.
They are the type of man you could turn your back on at a party and they are charming the socks off someone else in the blink of an eye. You might confuse their highly sociable attitude with flirting, but they will always be keen to correct you that they were ‘just talking.’
10. He Will Make Promises He Can’t Keep
Romance is the key to happiness when it comes to the Pisces man – he enjoys wooing you and sweeping you off your feet. However he is also well-known for romanticizing ideas and quite often he speaks before he thinks which leads to unkept promises.
He will get your heart racing with the idea of driving out to the countryside, renting a small cottage and drinking champagne under the stars. Then three months later when he hasn’t even booked the time off work you begin to realise his romantic idea might have been only that – an idea.
9. He Struggles To Make A Decision
The two fish in the Pisces symbol moving in different directions will start to make a lot more sense once you get more involved with him. A true Pisces will always feel as if they have inner-conflict in their lives and they struggle to make a decision. Their real battle is between what decision is right and which is the most romantic.
For example: they want to treat you to that large bunch of roses but you have already stressed that you both need to start saving money. They can spend nights wide-awake staring at the walls unable to make a decision on the matter. He is always more likely to think with his heart than his head.
8. He Struggles With Revealing His True Emotions
Hidden feelings and emotions is something you will just have to get use to when dating a Pisces man. As romantic as they are – when they are faced with a difficult decision they will retreat into themselves and not reveal what is really on their mind. You might feel once again that your Pisces man is “shutting you out.”
Quite often they have a history of broken down relationships and are considered to be unlucky in love. The ideal woman for any Pisces man is someone who will not try and force them to speak about their emotions so openly. When they are ready to come out of their shell they will let you know.
7. He Has A Bad Habit Of Wasting Money
Pisces men are quite materialistic and they will shower you with gifts early on in the relationship. After you have been wooed and you both become more serious it is this spending which will eventually lead to much frustration.
Seeing him waste so much money instead of saving for a bigger venture will cause a lot of arguments between you both. Money is one of the main subjects that causes couples to eventually go their separate ways. Make it very clear what you prefer your money to be spent on or you will soon watch it all waste away on junk.
6. He Is Usually Stuck In A Dream World
Escapism is an enjoyable event for any Pisces man and he often spends more time with his head in the clouds than his feet on the ground. In the workplace, Pisces men are not the most successful as they like to dream big but not put any of the actual groundwork to make things happen.
In more extreme cases, the Pisces man will turn to addiction in order to escape the realities of everyday life. They find themselves often bingeing on food, cigarettes, alcohol or in some cases even drugs in order to help them escape.
5. He Will Be The First To Leave A Party
If you’re the type of woman who enjoys partying till the early hours with friends and turning the music up loud – then the best advice is to just leave your Pisces man at home. They find loud, drunken parties very stressful and the environment uncomfortable in its sloppiness.
Always be willing to compromise in your relationship. You could consider attending the party together but then leaving early before things start getting wild. Your head will thank you for it in the morning.
4. He Finds Gossiping Cruel
If you’ve heard some juicy gossip at work and want to share it with your Pisces man then forget it. They enjoy detaching themselves from the real world and are not attracted to real-life drama.
They find sharing gossip about others a cruel and unattractive trait. They go out of their way to be helpful and generous to others, which means they expect people to be just as nice in return. A hint of nastiness and they will turn their back on your super quick.
3. His Hobbies Lack Adrenaline
If you are dating a Pisces man then expect your weekends to be filled with trips to art galleries, museums, quiet cafes and riverside walks. They enjoy life at a relaxed pace, so if you are attracted to a life of theme parks or a desire to catch the latest action movie release then you might have call a friend for that.
Showing an active interested in art and a more romantic era will make a Pisces man fall head over heels in love with you.
2. He Will Come Across As Self-Pitying
As the Pisces man spends most of his time trapped in a world of romantic fantasy he can quite often struggle with the harsh realities of life. You will notice he has a lot of self-pity as he complains that life isn’t quite how he visions it in his mind.
The childlike attitude of constantly living in a day dream will eventually grind you down. Always be honest with your feelings and try to find the deeper meaning of the fantasy. If he dreams of more disposable income then you can always suggest great ways to get ahead at work and finally ask for that promotion.
- He Is Not Adventurous In The Bedroom
To get a Pisces man into the bedroom takes some patience, they are not one to have regular flings and don’t enjoy being with a woman they have little or no emotional connection with.
Don’t get him wrong – he is a very sensual lover and will be the kind of man to lay you down on a bed rose petals. However, he is romantic and that is it. Dirty talk outside the bedroom, introducing anything kinky or even wearing underwear that appears overly promiscuous will not float his boat.