It’s never true whenever a person says that they don’t have the time to do things for you. They have the time; it’s just that they don’t want to have to waste it on you. Always remember that. People will always MAKE the time for the most important things in their life. And they will willingly sacrifice those that aren’t so important to them. It’s just that simple, really. So whenever a person tells you, I’m sorry. I just don’t have the time. I’m too busy, then that person is also saying You’re not important enough for me actually make the time.
So why are you wasting so much time on a person who is obviously not going to devote any time to you?
So when you fall in love with a person, you should be willing to give your time to that person. You should be willing to drop whatever it is that you’re doing to run to your partner when they need help. You should be willing to reschedule your appointments with other people if your partner is feeling lonely and vulnerable. You should be willing to spend lots of time with your partner to help build that emotional connection that you need to sustain the actual strength of your relationship. The amount of time that you directly invest in your love is correlated to how strong your affection for one another actually is.
So always make sure that you never underestimate the value of time in a relationship. When you love one another, make time for each other. If you feel like you deserve more time from your busy partner, then open up about it. Don’t disregard your feelings. Don’t be afraid to demand for more time and attention. Don’t be afraid of asking your partner to actually make you a priority in life.