You shouldn’t open doors for her and offer to drive and plan romantic dates at first, and then stop doing all of those things once she becomes your girlfriend. You should still do those things even though you have her. Even though you are confident she isn’t going to leave you. Effort is what will encourage …
Month: May 2018
1. There is no time limit on when you can find love or reach success. You have an entire lifetime to reach the goals you set for yourself. 2. Just because your friends have reached certain milestones by now does not mean you were supposed to do the same. Their answer to happiness is not necessarily the …
If she doesn’t scare the hell out of you a little, she’s not the one” At first glance, this meme might seem to be implying that you need to only date emotionally unstable people. But if you sit with it for a moment, it takes on a whole other (and more important) layer of meaning. …
You were supposed to be my friend. Do you know what that is? Do you know the basic characteristics of a friend are? I guess knowing what they are and understanding them are two completely different things. Silly me for asking that. You’ll wish you never ghosted me at some point or another. What you …
I am pretty sure the bestselling books are about ways you can find or persuade love. The recipes for happiness, the place you can find the ONE, how to get him or her back or even a few spells that you can cast. These are all on the internet or at least in a few books buried …
They can sense the distance before you even can. They brace themselves for every phone call, every text message, every conversation. They pay attention to all the unanswered voicemails, the pauses, the emptiness surrounding the silence. They tell themselves they are just being paranoid. They know they’ve done nothing wrong. It’s the just the anxiety, …
I feel like I’m pretty good at sensing vibes, but that’s not enough for me to know that a guy’s into me for sure. I need to hear those words: “I like you. I’m interested in you. I want you.” If he can’t manage that, it’s just not going to happen. 1. I’M NOT A MIND READER.You know …
When I say I have moved on, I don’t mean all of my feelings for you have magically disappeared. There is a piece of me that still loves you. I will always feel that way. We had something special. A strong connection. You meant something to me, which is why you are always going to hold …
Relationships are fun, but if you want to live your best life, you’re better off being single. Yes, really. Whether you’re happily solo or waiting impatiently for the love of your life, take a look at what science says about people who haven’t found “The One” just yet. 1. THEY’RE HEALTHIER. If you’re convinced that you’re going …
I’m slowly learning how to let go of what isn’t meant for me. I’m letting people exit my life when they are meant to leave, and I am no longer chasing after them. I’m seeing how when one door shuts, another one opens. I’m no longer knocking on closed doors with nothing left behind them. I’m …